tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post301550071073861720..comments2023-10-22T05:22:31.831-07:00Comments on mama milton: keeping up with the jonesesLisa Wheeler Miltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07386193798727387546noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-88344498893273107882008-03-11T22:33:00.000-07:002008-03-11T22:33:00.000-07:00I am SO with you on this. Cut your own path. You s...I am SO with you on this. Cut your own path. You shine wherever you are, Lisa. It is very clear. A plastic Barbie doll is not what you want to be. Thank GOD!JCKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04582581376724478366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-20999832384071792008-03-10T08:16:00.000-07:002008-03-10T08:16:00.000-07:00Excellent observations, my friend. Sounds to me l...Excellent observations, my friend. Sounds to me like you are "growing up," but maybe you always were? Go ahead and be kind...that never hurts. But, go on being content with <I>exactly</I> who you are! You are indeed the luckiest girl on the third rock from the sun.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-20052771993045192332008-03-09T20:48:00.000-07:002008-03-09T20:48:00.000-07:00Well Said Lisa!!! I couldn't agree more! What sadd...Well Said Lisa!!! I couldn't agree more! What saddens me even more is that 'keeping up' mentality is being instilled into their children as well. I was raised very simply by my mother, and subsequently never wanted for much. I thank her for that gift, and pray I am doing a good job in passing that on to my kids. I teach my kids that I can buy you 1 outfit from the pricey stores...or a few outfits from the Target/Wal-Mart/second hand shop! We know kids...we know what they choose! Mission accomplished.<BR/>Hold your ground and enjoy your peace...it's worth more than gold.Solo-Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16239701696824714282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-91970596108949636372008-03-08T17:17:00.000-08:002008-03-08T17:17:00.000-08:00You could move to my town. We are a simple people....You could move to my town. We are a simple people.Beckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13953517447164263617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-41317739944873803542008-03-07T16:47:00.000-08:002008-03-07T16:47:00.000-08:00I used to live in the 'Neighborhood' and we chose ...I used to live in the 'Neighborhood' and we chose to move to less desirable (please the houses aren't THAT much smaller)...right across the street and everyone asked WHY, but I have never never been happier to be less fancy, be accepted for who I am and not for what I have and have my kids be okay with what they have and not worry about what they don't have...I love my neighborhood even if it's not The Neighborhood.<BR/><BR/>so loved you post and the comments, it's so good to know there are some other down to earth people out there!tzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12586960868908412491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-54228528370816838612008-03-07T09:25:00.000-08:002008-03-07T09:25:00.000-08:00I have that in my neighborhood as well and unfortu...I have that in my neighborhood as well and unfortunately have friends similar to the Joneses. I've come to realize something, however. Materialism and spending is frequently a result of lack of self-esteem or some other insecurity. The need to spend, spend, spend is compensating for something else in their lives. Those who are happiest are those who are content with what they already have.Spagirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01084702447087079652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-10397389024976517302008-03-06T22:28:00.000-08:002008-03-06T22:28:00.000-08:00i have a great friend whose last name is jones. s...i have a great friend whose last name is jones. she's fabulous and just holds your hand if you can't keep up. if only all the joneses were so generous. <BR/><BR/>one of the reasons i had to move away from aspen...want my kids to get the world. eventually. and jess has it right, drugstore lipstick is great.katydidnothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15710011717146842223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-7522982062945079832008-03-06T22:26:00.000-08:002008-03-06T22:26:00.000-08:00Oh, and we so like you just as you are, dolled up ...Oh, and we so like you just as you are, dolled up in your drugstore lipstick. Screw the Joneses. (Says the girl who only recently got around to taking the aluminum foil off of her window and buying new curtains. Hee.)K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04650831310658205416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-70673003701541681372008-03-06T21:09:00.000-08:002008-03-06T21:09:00.000-08:00All those Jones' and those keeping up with them ar...All those Jones' and those keeping up with them are the ones that overextended themselves with their McMansions and the cars to go with them. They'll be the first to foreclose and go bankrupt and they will so want to keep up with the smart one...YOU!Tootsie Farklepantshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18336671002327112885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-53887096805899992342008-03-06T20:58:00.000-08:002008-03-06T20:58:00.000-08:00maybe you've had enough....or maybe you have enoug...maybe you've had enough....or maybe you have enough.flutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-73540351547461040112008-03-06T20:02:00.000-08:002008-03-06T20:02:00.000-08:00Ah - the Joneses.You're so right on the true reaso...Ah - the Joneses.<BR/>You're so right on the true reason for their one-up-manship, but that doesn't mean you have to like them :-)<BR/>Sounds like you know what is important. Smart girl.lapofluxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00092693467117246809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-48423023826650997182008-03-06T20:00:00.000-08:002008-03-06T20:00:00.000-08:00Well said, friend. You know I know...It was someo...Well said, friend. You know I know...It was someone from The Neighborhood last night who made the comment about Key Club students vs. pierced/dyed/freaky-haired [kids like mine] students. It can be so depressing.<BR/><BR/>We will band together in our thrift store thriftiness!stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04257126641387033673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-977196072273340462008-03-06T19:46:00.001-08:002008-03-06T19:46:00.001-08:00Being a renter in the affluent suburb of Bellevue,...Being a renter in the affluent suburb of Bellevue, I know all about driving the ten-year-old Subaru in a sea of $50,000 cars. I sometimes feel jealous when I hear about other people's yearly incredible vacations or their mountain homes. Or their couches that cost more than all of my furniture put together. But all I have to do is look around me or watch the news and it jerks me back into shape. I have never known anything close to poverty. Plus we have health insurance.<BR/><BR/>I think I will always be a thrift store/Target girl. I feel a little naughty when I spring for Pepperidge Farm.Mrs. G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01171997573144385692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-39740315314565632752008-03-06T19:46:00.000-08:002008-03-06T19:46:00.000-08:00Hey you know what: - our IL house is a whopping 82...Hey you know what:<BR/><BR/> - our IL house is a whopping 828 sq ft! TOTAL. No "real" garage, gravel driveway...and I LOVE being in the SMALLEST house in "The Neighborhood." (Heck, we have the LOWEST property taxes!)<BR/><BR/>- After having my skin destroyed/burned/rash-induced from an expensive spa facial, I went back to trusty old sensitive skin/fragrance free drugstore Olay face wash and moisturizer!<BR/><BR/>- I decided that instead of a tummy tuck, I'd get some padded bras at Marshall's - that way my boobs stick out more, and no one notices my tummy bulge!<BR/><BR/>These are all my rationalizations (logically planned, of course) to derail any temptations into the world of insecure housewifery and/or snobbery swirling around me in The Neighborhood.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-29884962228608535402008-03-06T17:58:00.000-08:002008-03-06T17:58:00.000-08:00The Jones' are overrated. It's much more fun livin...The Jones' are overrated. It's much more fun living like a country girl. I can understand spending money on a purse... not on fancy lipstick. <BR/><BR/>Stick with the drugstore kind.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05350371272148284487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28942997.post-69440456386040290682008-03-06T15:00:00.000-08:002008-03-06T15:00:00.000-08:00A very poignant post, Lisa. It echoes my own feel...A very poignant post, Lisa. It echoes my own feelings in some ways. In others, I feel myself get caught up in that yearning for material things and that disturbs me. It's an issue that conflicts me at times.Kimberly Vanderhorsthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01653757517652257445noreply@blogger.com